😭Dating  A Single mom is  A Disaster.  😭

The reasons are here 

1. Her kid is not your kid, no matter how much you pretend he is. You will be made aware of that fact in short order. By the mother. The mother will have no problem with you providing for the child, buying birthday presents, and spending money on the kid. However the minute you try to discipline him or keep him in line, she will tell you “he is not your child!”. 

2. Her relationship with her child's father failed for two reasons. Either she had issues or he did. Do i want to take that 50-50 gamble and find out? Not particularly.

3. Her kids will always come first. As they should. Having said that, why should a man settle for that when there is a surplus of single women available who can make him the priority?

4. If the relationship should ever sour and end in divorce, you will never see the kid again, even if you have formed a close bond with him/her.

5. The motives of a single mother can be very hard to discern. Raising kids as a single mother is tough. Single mothers tend to work all the time, don't make a lot of money and have little to no time for leisure. .

6. You are capping your potential at the knees, particularly if you are a young man in your twenties. Even if she tells you that she doesn't expect you to pay for her kids, rest assured that you will become the financial provider eventually. Kids are expensive. The money that you spend on those kids could be used to further your career, maybe start your own business, invest for retirement. 

7. Baby daddy drama

8.  The chances of these relationships last is really slim. More than 75% of blended family or single mother second relationships fail within 2 to 4 years.

9. There is aa high chance of  children raised by single mother's ending up becoming a violent criminal or drug abuser. Statistics do not lie.. Click here to see USA official statistics  to understand the reality.